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Tuesday, March 16, 2021
CAT AND MOUSE
After my Sunday post it was intresting to see the comments about Mr Lumbersexual. Some of them were like go for it, while other wondered which way he swings. His sexuality I think they meant, not what side he positions his boy. But to the right if your wondering. My eyes don't miss much darlings. I must admit it is going to be fun to see what happens here. My libido was through the roof yesterday after he was here for his just desserts Sunday. I wanted to wear my tee shirt with Coffee? Tea? or Me? on it but thought it might be too much. And the "I Recycle Boys" tee with the symbol for recycle might have gave him the wrong impression of me. No comments bitches. But you see, your Mistress, contrary to popular belief, does not always sit like Venus fly trap waiting to devour his meal. For some reason, I sense a good game of cat and mouse coming on with him. And I'm game. A good friend of mine says I have always enjoyed that game, and they may be right to an extent. I have no question when Brice, the lumbersexual is here, that one can't help but feel the sexual electricity in the air, and the flirting will inevitably take place, good natured, and innocent, but will still send the right signals to all the right areas!! And to a point, I get always gotten off to that if it's right.
I remember the last time this happened. It was with a guy from Harrisburg when I lived there. By damned was he hot. And a smile so hot it would melt butter. Well, we always had a extremely hot flirtious relationship of cat and mouse, and the time was never right to date or hook up, because one of us was always dating. That said, there were times when we would flirt to the point of very hot petting, rubbing and making out....but would never cross the line to sex.
The tension would get so thick at times you could have cut it with a knife. I can remember one pool a party where I was. With only a square cut on. We made out and and got each other so turned on, that we climaxed right in our swimmies. But why? We could have easily slipped away into the woods and fucked like rabbits. Even in innocent times, if we crossed paths there was flirting going on. I remember once seeing him in a coffeeshop, and I pinched his cheek and lips with whipped cream from my coffee. Or he'd be out and he'd rub my back and my cakes. And then there was dancing. Oh dear. And would you believe this cat and mouse game right on for close to 21 years!!!!!
It wasn't till after I and the ex boy- toy split up by several years, that I was in Harrisburg one night and ran into him. We often ran into each other on our visits out and about, but then I was taken for years. Even my ex loved Sean!!!!! But on this night, we were both singletons again. And for some reason it happened.
We ended up back at his place, for what we both thought I'm sure some very hot and torturous flirting. But I remember knocking him up against a wall, stripping him and started oral on him quickly. and that was it. Very. Hot .Physical Sex. I didn't leave till the next afternoon, and left very weak legged.
And after that would you believe we never had sex again, and the cat and mouse game ended. I don't know he is even in the area anymore, but a friend did say they saw Sean about two years ago, and he turned into a very hot daddy. Part of me missed the cat and mouse playing and flirting...we both got high off it I think. But even thought the sex was very hot, I wonder why we did it, and if it was so good in bed, why the flirting didn't continue? So with Mr Lumbersexual this is bringing about the same feeling and I love the flirting. I do know he is bi, so he says, but he does come across shy and he's definitely introverted. Sometimes I feel a loneness in him, even though I don't think he is. But the way we hang and pal around feels very much the same with my first mouse. How do you feel about a good cat and mouse flirt game? And why do you suspect it goes on? I have however, always thought good flirting is healthy for the soul. So maybe next time Ill slowly slip in a nice shoulder rub! And Ill just happen to be in sport briefs.
Could this be the next cat and mouse game, where I enjoy the feeling of the electrical rush one gets from a good flirting game, or just spring for poppers? Or do I just come out tell him, and see if we hit the sheets? Either way, I will feel good.
Felt like I was reading one of Uptonking's gay sex pulp fiction novels (excuse me while I wipe the steam off my glasses). I say, next time wear the tee and put the poppers on the table in front of him.
I love a good old flirting game, as obviously you do. It's the essence of "the hunt" that is slowly being lost these days, with all these "hookup apps" and the like. I may be old(er), and not so much the "catch" any more, but the game's still the same no matter the mileage, dear... Jx
Yes me too dear...it's a good feeling isn't it? It could be the essence of the hunt I like, almost like a lion playing with it's food before it kills it and eats it, in a manner of speaking.
I agree too about apps...they killed everything. I was never into them. There's no chase in the sexual pursuit anymore, killed the dance clubs, nightlife and bar scene, and men have no social skills to carry out a decent conversation when in person. I say go have a happy life with your app. How boring.
First off, having met you, and in jeans, I don't know how he hasn't pawed at you yet?!?!?!?! You wear clothes well bro.
I'm don't know why a good flirt game like that ends with sex, but I have been there. I would love to read what others say about that. I say next time there you should take the flirting to the next level and see what he does. He flirts too by the sounds, but may be just shy.
But when you guys hit the sheets, we'll need major details. Maybe even pictures.
Henny, I think follow that first gif you opened with. No one can resist a cute pec like that. Yes, I too agree with Jon. The art of flirting is over. Apps and hooks killed that. But id done right, you naild the feeling of that electrical shock going thought your body.
I don't know how it is for two guys, I would imagine the same. I say go with the flirting and enjoy it. I too agree flirting id dead, or almost dead. And I don't mean that look of lust when two meet are sizing each other up, but that playful, fun, maybe lite sexual flirt. It's not done anymore.
I say go with it and enjoy...and it you hit the sheets it will happen. He sounds like a nice person. But 21 years with the other one! You really did make it a art form!!!
OMG YES! There's nothing like terribly unavoidable physical attraction! Been there, have not done them. Goddess, it's so frustrating. And so HOT. Flirting. I miss that.
Hmmm. See, I am from the school of real hard knocks, so I always let them choo-choo choose me... if it's not obvious, I know not to waste my time. Anytime I get caught up in fantasyland, reality always gives me one right to the face - and we ain't talking a facial, hon. But you're a swan, dear... and I'm an ugly duckling, so you go with what works for you. Keep us posted. I like living vicariously... Kizzes.
the game of seduction is already a foreplay in itself, which can lead to sex or love. Or even to nothing. it is however a strong motivator and a game that fills life and days. Because your thoughts are always there, where you will meet him, what you will tell him, what he will tell you. It can be a very rewarding game.
Ok. The first cat and mouse chase was a hot read. That has happen to me to and I feel it has something to do with the thrill of chase being over, but I could never figure out why then it doesn't continue if the sex was hot.
But I say keep doing what your doing...I always find it cute when you post he's coming over. And keeping flirting. Too many guys I know who are relying on Grindr, dare I say it, a little too much....BORNING. No skills...just wham and bam. I also find apps very negative and cold.
Flirtation in the courts of Europe was an essential part of a sophisticated, elegant life, but there were rules of engagement, and the players had to respect and understand those rules. People think that flirting is about the body but it's all very heady stuff. The brain is the biggest sex organ that we've got. When we run into problems is when we are unaware of the rules, or dismiss them out of hand.
The person with whom we are flirting will give off cues to express interest or disinterest. Sounds like your both there. Why do we flirt in the first place? It's all about sex. When we flirt we are really saying we want to have sex with that person. It then becomes an elegant dance to see whether that person also wants to have sex with us. So I say enjoy the dance and court.
I have a good friend and we have always flirted back and forth--he's straight, married TO A WOAMN now--and people always wondered what was up between us. It was flirty and fun, and maybe a little kissing here and there. It's nice, that little cat-and-mouse game because it makes both parties feel very sexy.
I haven't seen my friend in a few years, but that little flirty feeling is always nearby.
Yes you might be right about that feeling too. I know with Sean, it was much the same way. People wondered what was going on. If I ever see him again, and I see that smile I know I will start flirting again.
Enjoying the chase and then once you've caught the mouse, well...sometimes that will be it; no more interest in the toy. Have enormous fun with the Lumberjack.
Wow! You knocked me out with this one! I have to get up from the floor. The way you told the story with increasingly interesting gifs--well played, my dear. A cat and mouse thing can be a lot of fun. I used to have phone sex with a fellow blogger, but it was more than that. We talked for hours about everything. He flew in to meet me eventually, and bedtime was so very steamy. But he lived where he lived and I lived where I lived. We continued to talk on the phone at times, but it wasn't the same once we knew it was never going to work out because of distance and unwillingness on both parts to make a move. We're still friends, but that's all. I remember the game with great pleasure, though. Maybe your flirtation with Lumbersexual will lead to something wonderful and long lasting.
Oh Janie! I loved your comment! It is rather fun isn't it! That's a very cool story and glad to here your still friends. I had a similar experience with Cali Boi here. That boy is a handful, and so fun. We have met once and it was much like your experience.
I agree with Janie Junebug - this is a very well constructed post with the placement of those gifs. (Ah, Zayne/Zain, however your name's spelled - but not you, Harry!)
It got me thinking about my experiences in the cat-and-mouse flirting game. It's been so long now - years and years! - that I had pretty much forgotten such a thing ever existed. But what fun! The excitement and exhilaration, and wondering how far to go before it's too far? It certainly kept me on my toes and my mind sharp. And I think that's what's needed for successful long-term flirting - a sharp mind. Something you clearly have.
I got nuthin', but I think I need a cold shower.
ReplyDeleteOH MY!
ReplyDeleteYou two are absolutely no help!
ReplyDeleteExcept Deedles.... I cold shower sounds good. I trip down memory lane with Sean got me hot and bothered now..
Felt like I was reading one of Uptonking's gay sex pulp fiction novels (excuse me while I wipe the steam off my glasses).
ReplyDeleteI say, next time wear the tee and put the poppers on the table in front of him.
You might be right Jimmy. *hands over a tissue to wipe the steam off*
DeleteI love a good old flirting game, as obviously you do. It's the essence of "the hunt" that is slowly being lost these days, with all these "hookup apps" and the like. I may be old(er), and not so much the "catch" any more, but the game's still the same no matter the mileage, dear... Jx
ReplyDeleteYes me too dear...it's a good feeling isn't it? It could be the essence of the hunt I like, almost like a lion playing with it's food before it kills it and eats it, in a manner of speaking.
DeleteI agree too about apps...they killed everything. I was never into them. There's no chase in the sexual pursuit anymore, killed the dance clubs, nightlife and bar scene, and men have no social skills to carry out a decent conversation when in person. I say go have a happy life with your app. How boring.
First off, having met you, and in jeans, I don't know how he hasn't pawed at you yet?!?!?!?! You wear clothes well bro.
ReplyDeleteI'm don't know why a good flirt game like that ends with sex, but I have been there. I would love to read what others say about that. I say next time there you should take the flirting to the next level and see what he does. He flirts too by the sounds, but may be just shy.
But when you guys hit the sheets, we'll need major details. Maybe even pictures.
Don't forget about the video.
DeleteI figured you'd be signing up for fluffer?
Deleteto be honest, im surprised your not sitting on the chaise picking your teeth clean with a toothpick yet.
ReplyDeleteBwahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!
DeleteYou sure know how to make me miss Friday nights.
DeleteHenny, I think follow that first gif you opened with. No one can resist a cute pec like that. Yes, I too agree with Jon. The art of flirting is over. Apps and hooks killed that. But id done right, you naild the feeling of that electrical shock going thought your body.
ReplyDeleteI don't know how it is for two guys, I would imagine the same. I say go with the flirting and enjoy it. I too agree flirting id dead, or almost dead. And I don't mean that look of lust when two meet are sizing each other up, but that playful, fun, maybe lite sexual flirt. It's not done anymore.
ReplyDeleteI say go with it and enjoy...and it you hit the sheets it will happen. He sounds like a nice person. But 21 years with the other one! You really did make it a art form!!!
Enjoy it and go with it! I have never experienced that and it's sound nice.
ReplyDeleteI remember meeting him the once when he was at your place. Ill never forget those husky blue eyes. And even then, I picked up on the flirting.
Nice to be able to watch all this stuff without spending all my money on 25 cent tokens.
ReplyDelete"...we would flirt to the point of very hot petting, rubbing and make outing....but would never cross the line to sex."
With that one sentence, you already crossed more lines than da Vinci.
LMAO!!!!!! If the movie comes out, I see you get a copy Kirk! Keep your tokens.
DeleteSometimes it's so much better to keep the cat and mouse going.
ReplyDeleteWell 21 years was long enough!!!! If I see Sean again and he is indeed a Daddy, it might start over again.
DeleteI kept trying to read this post but I kept getting distracted halfway through. Gee, I wonder why? LOL
ReplyDeleteSeriously, I think you're going to have a lot of fun with his Louisville Slugger sometime soon.
OMG YES!
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing like terribly unavoidable physical attraction! Been there, have not done them. Goddess, it's so frustrating. And so HOT. Flirting. I miss that.
XOXO
You can flirt with the best of them. I’ve succumbed to your “come hither” look. It was well worth it 😉
DeleteCome hither look? I thought it was his "in heat" look?
DeleteHmmm. See, I am from the school of real hard knocks, so I always let them choo-choo choose me... if it's not obvious, I know not to waste my time. Anytime I get caught up in fantasyland, reality always gives me one right to the face - and we ain't talking a facial, hon. But you're a swan, dear... and I'm an ugly duckling, so you go with what works for you. Keep us posted. I like living vicariously... Kizzes.
ReplyDeleteYou have shown your picture before...and you were mighty handsome I though!!!!!!!
DeleteFlirting IS healthy...go for all of it.
ReplyDeleteYou got this Mistress and remember in these famous words-
ReplyDelete“Flirting is a woman’s trade, one must keep in practice.”
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre
the game of seduction is already a foreplay in itself, which can lead to sex or love. Or even to nothing. it is however a strong motivator and a game that fills life and days. Because your thoughts are always there, where you will meet him, what you will tell him, what he will tell you. It can be a very rewarding game.
ReplyDeleteOk. The first cat and mouse chase was a hot read. That has happen to me to and I feel it has something to do with the thrill of chase being over, but I could never figure out why then it doesn't continue if the sex was hot.
ReplyDeleteBut I say keep doing what your doing...I always find it cute when you post he's coming over. And keeping flirting. Too many guys I know who are relying on Grindr, dare I say it, a little too much....BORNING. No skills...just wham and bam. I also find apps very negative and cold.
Whatever is going on with you two I find awfully cute...could be the next romantic rom com.
ReplyDeleteFlirtation in the courts of Europe was an essential part of a sophisticated, elegant life, but there were rules of engagement, and the players had to respect and understand those rules. People think that flirting is about the body but it's all very heady stuff. The brain is the biggest sex organ that we've got. When we run into problems is when we are unaware of the rules, or dismiss them out of hand.
ReplyDeleteThe person with whom we are flirting will give off cues to express interest or disinterest. Sounds like your both there. Why do we flirt in the first place? It's all about sex. When we flirt we are really saying we want to have sex with that person. It then becomes an elegant dance to see whether that person also wants to have sex with us. So I say enjoy the dance and court.
Loved hearing this...it seems the elegant dance might be where were at.....
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ReplyDeleteSorry. I got distracted. Did you say something about a lumberjack?
ReplyDelete🥵 my goodness this could be a Lifetime movie, with a sequel on PornHub!
ReplyDeleteI have a good friend and we have always flirted back and forth--he's straight, married TO A WOAMN now--and people always wondered what was up between us. It was flirty and fun, and maybe a little kissing here and there. It's nice, that little cat-and-mouse game because it makes both parties feel very sexy.
ReplyDeleteI haven't seen my friend in a few years, but that little flirty feeling is always nearby.
Yes you might be right about that feeling too. I know with Sean, it was much the same way. People wondered what was going on. If I ever see him again, and I see that smile I know I will start flirting again.
DeleteEnjoying the chase and then once you've caught the mouse, well...sometimes that will be it; no more interest in the toy. Have enormous fun with the Lumberjack.
ReplyDeleteYou could be right. But I suspect now if we saw each other again the flirting might come back , but we'd mostly likely hit the sheets too.
DeleteI think this could also be why I haven't made a move on Mr Lumbersexual yet.
Wow! You knocked me out with this one! I have to get up from the floor. The way you told the story with increasingly interesting gifs--well played, my dear. A cat and mouse thing can be a lot of fun. I used to have phone sex with a fellow blogger, but it was more than that. We talked for hours about everything. He flew in to meet me eventually, and bedtime was so very steamy. But he lived where he lived and I lived where I lived. We continued to talk on the phone at times, but it wasn't the same once we knew it was never going to work out because of distance and unwillingness on both parts to make a move. We're still friends, but that's all. I remember the game with great pleasure, though. Maybe your flirtation with Lumbersexual will lead to something wonderful and long lasting.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Janie
Oh Janie! I loved your comment! It is rather fun isn't it! That's a very cool story and glad to here your still friends. I had a similar experience with Cali Boi here. That boy is a handful, and so fun. We have met once and it was much like your experience.
DeleteI agree with Janie Junebug - this is a very well constructed post with the placement of those gifs. (Ah, Zayne/Zain, however your name's spelled - but not you, Harry!)
ReplyDeleteIt got me thinking about my experiences in the cat-and-mouse flirting game. It's been so long now - years and years! - that I had pretty much forgotten such a thing ever existed. But what fun! The excitement and exhilaration, and wondering how far to go before it's too far? It certainly kept me on my toes and my mind sharp.
And I think that's what's needed for successful long-term flirting - a sharp mind. Something you clearly have.