I myself being a gay man, will never understand why gay men have issues with other parts of the community. While trans women are accepted to a point, I will never understand the two separate gates so to speak for the gay men and lesbians. I can recall when I came out in Harrisburg and the clan would go to the local big dance club Stallions. It was four floors, and generally the top floor was reserved for the lesbians, and the queens nick named it, "the fish aquarium." The gay men would generally get their panties in a twist if and when some of the lesbsytrians would up down to the main floor and wanted to dance. WHAT? Were we not all in the same group on minority and being hated upon and discriminated against? I never did and still don't understand it. Even to the dismay of some of my friends, I often hung out in lesbian bars. Some of my best most drunken nights would be hanging with butches and bull dykes, and lipsticks. We'd even go head-to-head with shots!!! Talk about good times. Hell, I can remember once when my ex, the Boy Toy, who some of you may recall and myself were in Rehoboth once and we were the only two gay boys hanging with the gals in the Frog Pond. Alas, they did drink him under the table as he was but a pup still. He hit the deck. Even in New Hope, I always adored a woman named Liz. A larger, masculine butch, with a loud boisterous voice, and almost always had on a button downed dress shirt, sleeves flipped, khakis, a cigar, and one foot always up on he bar stool rung, while in conversation, while I sat crossed legged. She was a hoot. And when she patted you on the back, she sent one into the next week. She would always harass Warbucks and I. "You two are so cute together. Dating or just fucking?" No.... call me crazy, but I love the lesbsytrians. And the only way we all win is as one. Lighten up gay boys!! Don't hate just because they are more man than you. And our fun playgrounds are for all of us, why segregate? That was soooo yesterday.
